Where is my period or positive test?!

Kiersten

So I posted at the beginning of the month that this is month 9 of trying. Well my period was supposed to come on June 30th and here we are at July 17th and still no period. What's more frustrating is that I fleet getting negative results. I have no period cramps. I'm not even spotting. Only symptom remotely close is that I get nauseous every night. And today the smell of my grilled cheese sandwich was almost sickening to me.

My best friend suggests waiting awhile before going to dr again. Only because back in January I went for 3 months no period and not pregnant. So what should I do? Go see dr? And if so which dr my family dr? Or my gyno dr because my family dr will probably tell me to just wait it out. Help please! Positive thoughts my way would be great!

Am I alone here? Does this happen to anyone else? Where you want your period to come or the

pink lines but neither one is coming!!! :(

Update: Aunt Flo came to visit today :,( part of me is glad that one of the two occurred and the rest of me is crying on the inside because I really wanted to be pregnant.... and I event dreamt last night that I was. I just want to cry right now. I don't get it. Why did it take so long to come?? Why couldn't I get pregnant? Okay here come the actual tears 😢😢😢