I'm having a boy! This is baby #1 and we came up with a creative name, however some of my family and my boyfriends family are throwing a major fit. We're sticking with the name Gotham James McNeil. Its different I know and we love that his name also means peace and light. I love it. My mother wants to call him James and there's a story behind that name for me and I will not have it. James comes from my boyfriends grandpa and not from my side... I'm at a loss. I just want him to be loved but inhale a feeling some family won't budge with liking the name. Ugh!!!!