I was in a relationship that lasted years, I've known the guy since I was 5..he was my stepdads ,bestfriends son. We were inseparable and then fell in love and dated for a long time. One day he had a hard day and took it out on me by yelling. He apologized and said he loves me and then things were fine. I started to notice a pattern beginning where he would start yelling at me more often and then would take his anger out from someone else's causing onto me by cheating on me and then regretting it and stupidly I'd go back to him, after awhile he took his rage from other people ruining his day and he became abusive to me. We broke up and I found someone who makes me as happy as can be and I love him with everything I have. We've been together about 4 months and for the first time something happened. He had a long day at work and then yelled at me and then apologized and said he loves me..just like that I was worried..it's reversing and I'm just praying it won't end up the same as with my ex😞