Ready to spill

I'm almost 8 weeks with our 3rd. go to the dr on monday. we were going to wait to tell until Sept but I'm starting to show and so miserable I can't hide it without locking myself up. so we're going to tell our family at my son's bday party at 9 weeks. I wish I could hide it longer because I don't know the really know how everyone will react since my youngest isn't a year yet.. I just am not ready for any negativity.