my boyfriend and I have been ttc for a lil over a yr and no matter what we do nothin works I've even been tryin to eat healthier and still nothing I keep seeing that I HAVE to lose weight or HAVE to stop smoking and I'm working on that too but yet I see people that r in worse conditions then me yet I'm just here praying nd dreaming that it happens I mean I kno that quitting all these can maybe help but I need some support I kno boyfriend will support me but sometimes u just need a women to talk to especially when I don't have anyone else to turn to which is y I'm asking for some advise and no this is not a sob story nd I'm not tryin to do this for attention I'm just simply askin for some support or advise please and thank you