I'll try to make this short, but pretty much my family invited me on a trip to the mountains since I'm about to have my first child. They want a last family vacation just us, which I get. I am 30 weeks pregnant, which isn't majorly terrible, but I have not had a good pregnancy at all. From severely itching all over since 7 weeks, in and out of the ER from painful contractions 1-2 mins apart plus dilation, having multiple doctors appointments a week (since I have to see high risk too), etc. Plus all the basic symptoms like feeling extremely huge and getting out of breath, feeling like I can't breathe at all, pains, difficulty standing for long periods of time. I'm not trying to be annoying but the LAST thing I want to do right now is travel. Being in a car for 8 hours and then staying in the mountains where my family plans to do a lot of hiking and walking and outdoor type things. I love them to death and I really want to go, but it's the last thing I want to do. I could go and sit in the cabin while they hike all day, but it would be no fun to be by myself all week.

I tried to explain this to my mom but she doesn't listen. Ive just had so many problems I hate to be away from my doctors and plus I just have a routine down at my home that works for me to get through this. And I got 2 doctors appointments the week of the trip i hate to miss. I feel extremely selfish and I don't want to ruin the trip, so maybe I'll just suck it up and go, but I'm just not sure what to do. advice ?