Hi ladies! So for the past few weeks my boyfriend and I have been trying to have sex. We're both 17 and lost our virginity to each other. Here's the thing that's been bothering me. It takes him awhile to get hard and then he CANT STAY HARD. And I know he can't help it but it's like I get so into the moment and turned on but then he just goes soft! It's really frustrating because I would like to have sex. I try blowing him but he still stays soft or after like 30 seconds of doing it he pulls me away from his dick, like is there something I'm doing wrong? Then I'm like starting to think "oh god is he gay? Does he not like me anymore?" I just need some advice PLEASE! Thank you all :)