Is it okay?

LADIES!Is it okay for your man to download porn videos onto his phone?

I'm not okay with it at all, to watch porn is different from downloading porn.

But I'm still not okay with him watching due to if he feels the need to watch that makes me feel as if I'm doing my job wrong or it's not good enough , and to download it makes me feel like I'm just there for his real life pleasures. I told him I'm not okay with it and come to find out he downloaded a shit tons more. This really gets to me and hurts my feelings.