So we announced our pregnancy recently and we had a lady walk up to us and say that she just couldn't be happy for us cause her granddaughter just lost her baby and that she wasn't going to congratulate us. Now I get how it feels because we've had 4 miscarriages.. I literally bawled in the dr office when we heard the heartbeat cause I was so scared we'd lose this one too.. I know how it feels to wish it was you and wonder what you're doing wrong.. but I would never ever say that to someone. I get that ppl grieve differently but we announced it in a big group setting and she simply could have not said anything. It really hurt my husband more than it irritated me. I just don't get how ppl can be that way. We were polite, because we get it, and apologized and left it alone. But it's a beautiful thing for anyone to be blessed with a life and no matter how hurt you are or what you're feeling you should never talk to someone this way. Through all our losses I was very hurt and upset but I never once made another pregnant woman feel bad for being excited and sharing the news.. I was happy for them.