Pressure for the man when TTC

Hi all, I just want to check that we're not alone here. my sex drive is extremely high, all month - not just when ovulating, but my BF's is low - so low 😯. I have to ask for sex all the time and I feel like I'm pathetic, like I'm begging. I recently found out he's been watching porn but he's promised to watch less / stop completely if he can as this is something he's always done. He's 35 now and even though he knows he has sex on tap, he doesn't make a move which suggests to me that he's sorting himself out. this wouldn't be such a major problem if I wasn't as sensitive as I am and we weren't TTC. When we do have sex, and he knows I'm ovulating, he struggles to finish sometimes but he looks genuinely upset about it. I've stopped telling him when I'm ovulating so he's not under pressure l and this works but we don't have sex enough to conceive - it's so frustrating! anyone else go through this or have any advice? I sext him at work and dress up for him but I think he's either getting bored or he just doesn't want me cuz he's wanked 😏