Sex is how you make a baby and the number one way to get a disease, so always use protection. First you need to get to know your cycles. Count from first day of period to the day before next period, that's how long your cycle is. So let's say you have a regular 28 day cycle we'll theoretically give you a five day bleed and a 14 day luteal phase (I'll explain what that means below), you ovulate two weeks before day 28, which would be about 9-10 days after the last day of your period.

CD= cycle day

AF= period

O= ovulation day

LP= luteal phase

FW= fertile window

CD1- AF

2- AF

3- AF

4- af

5- af

9- FW

10- FW

11- FW

12- FW

13-FW

14- O

15- FW

CD 16-28 is your luteal phase= the 1-2 weeks after ovulation but before your next period, that gives your egg time to implant if it becomes fertilized.

Now, Sperm can live for up to 5 days in your Fallopian tubes environment, but your egg will only live for about 12-24 hours. That's why your fertile window is so large. You can have sex 4 days before your ovulation day and still get pregnant, same for the day after your ovulation day, sperm are fast and can still catch the egg if it's alive and waiting to be fertilized.

To achieve an orgasm you need to explore your own body. Explore your clit and vagina to learn what turns you on. Sex for the first time may hurt and you'll probably bleed s little bit afterward or during- normal- don't get embarrassed. There's weird sounds and smells with sex sometimes, again don't feel embarrassed.

Anddddd NEVER do anal and then vaginal sex directly afterward, that's how you get E.Coli. Use a condom for both (because diseases) and have him renew the condom before/after switching holes.

Love yourself, explore and be comfortable with yourself before taking this step.

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