Hi all. I am a FTM and I have been feeling rather down lately because i want to be a stay at home mom. I live in NYC and work days are long. With the commute I have 12 hour days. I don't want to miss my son growing up. My husband is aiming that in 3-4 years we will move somewhere cheaper and I can be a SAHM. I'm just so worried that I'm going to miss out on some of the best parts of his life by then. My mom tells me 3-4 years is a long time and he's only little once. I know boys adore their mommies but when does this stop? If I'm not a SAHM till he's 5 will i have missed out on the best parts? 😩 I hate leaving him in the mornings.