No relationship is perfect, mine certainly isn't. My husband could be more this and less that and I'm sure he'd say the same about me.

We spend so much time looking at social media and envying other people's "perfect" lives. Their relationships, new homes, proposals, marriages, babies... they have it all and it's so hard to be happy for people when all you feel is jealousy.

But honestly, no one has everything they want. It's all about mindset, changing the way you think, turning negatives into positives. It's the hardest thing to do, I struggle everyday to see the good things, but they do exist. I'm not in a good place at the moment and need all the positivity I can get.

I feel like I'm alive, but not living. I moan about my husband all the time and can't find anything nice to say about him. We're starting our Counselling sessions next week and I'm hoping this will help us to communicate more and understand one another. I'm losing sight of why I married him.

If possible, I'd like us to share one positive thing about our partners, remember the good things xxxxx