Trying to gauge where people are. Usually it feels really raw and especially hurtful right after a breakup, and then feeling "back to normal" can take any amount of time depending on the relationship's nature, your treatment of each other, how long you were together, and how you broke up/ended up single again.

Just know that people go through it- this group is proof itself- and while you may find yourself single again you are certainly not alone! If you need to rant about it you can definitely start a thread in the comments or your own post on here. You may find someone going through something similar!