How to get toilet paper off when I wipe EDITED

Every time I wipe, there is always toilet paper pieces still there.. I've tried so many different brands and none of it works... before my boyfriend and I have sex, I always go to the bathroom and wipe well with baby wipes and then with a wash rag because there's nothing worse than the idea of my boyfriend eating me out/having sex and there being toilet paper pieces left. I always kinda thought it was normal until I made a post about it and a girl said "Ew" and people upvoted it. It's not like I'm unclean or something... I wipe thoroughly and shower daily. can someone please help?

A lot of people on my last post suggested Charmin Ultra strong, and I checked and he kind that I have right now is charmin essentials and that kind flakes off pretty bad. So I don't know if all of the other kinds of Charmin would as well. The only kind that I have noticed that does not do it is the one-ply kind that I have at work and school, but that isn't comfortable to use, and I also don't know where to find it in stores. It seems like maybe the thicket the toilet paper is, the worse it is.