So my boyfriend has this friend who moved out of state last year. I don't mind hanging out with him for a little bit once in a while but that's it. He's just disrespectful when he's at our house. He doesn't ask, just assume he can stay over while he's back, he eats our food that I pay for, showers here sometimes if he even showers🙄 drinks my boyfriends beer the whole time, which is whatever but he never buys him a case back or anything in return as a thanks, just expects him to buy it for them every time, he stays up until 4 am high or drunk as fuck, has the tv on laughing his ass off which he's so obnoxious about. So now he's back again because I guess someone screwed him out of everything he has, which honestly I bet it's his fault he got in that situation because he hangs out with shitty ass druggies. So he hung out with my boyfriend today which I was busy so I wasn't here the whole time but hung out a little bit and didn't mind. My friend asked if I wanted to go get her dog with her so I did and texted my boyfriend that his friend wasn't staying. We got in a huge argument about it because apparently he was going to stay and my boyfriend kept saying it's not just my house. And then how he's the one who pays the bills so it doesn't really matter what I say. The big issues that I don't want him staying this time is because we have a 7 week old baby. I don't need someone keeping me up at night when I get up enough with my son, i come downstairs every morning for the rest of the day because his swing, play mats and obviously the kitchen is down here where I'm constantly washing and making bottles. I don't want to hang out and do all that shit while someone is sleeping on the couch. Let alone everything I just said, he's too disrespectful and we have a child now. I don't need some one crashing here like that. And he has MULTIPLE places he can stay, his moms, his sisters, his brothers, he has other friends. He doesn't need to stay here. My bf said it'd be one night. So exactly he obviously has somewhere else to stay the rest of the nights why does he need to be here? Especially because my boyfriend is passed out now because he works nights and hasn't been robbed yet(it's now his days off) so I'd just be sitting here with him until I go to bed? No. So anyways when I got back home they must of been talking about it when I walked in because they got all quiet and his friend was like "so yeah.. see you later" and left. And my boyfriend didn't even say a word to me and just went up to bed. Like are you serious? You're going to be mad at me because I don't want him crashing here for all of these reasons and because we have a baby?! I'm just so pissed he's acting like this now.