I have been married for 5 and half years. There have been a lot of problems. Infidelity, treats me like a kid, makes me feel as if I have to check with him before doing certain thing or making purchases. I chose to forgive and try to move on. I told him I thought that we should seperate and as soon as he stared talking it's like I just shrunk. Now, he acts like it's all good. I have so much stress, anxiety and nausea. I feel like I should pack up and just leave. But I feel like such a bad person to do that! I'm not a person that likes to hurt others. I just hate the way I feel. *Update: he refuses to go to counseling