Update to Worst News Ever

Ashley • Ashley

Here is an update from this post: So my husband had a his sperm test and got the results today! Found put the only way I will ever get pregnant is by <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> and sperm donor!!! This wont mess my marriage up but i am extremely upset! I didn't expect it! I told my husband this wont come in between us but i have a feeling he feels like he failed me as a husband!!! He hasn't failed me! It's just frustrating because we could never afford <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>!! Anyone have kind words or advice?

Update is: We met with a fertility urologist yesterday! He specializes in reproductive and fertility help! He gave us better news then from what we got on Friday! He is doing hormone blood tests and the results came back normal which is good! He said we have options more then what we thought! My husband wants a biological child so bad which is a change from when we started trying a year ago he said he would be fine with no kids! So big change after finding out he sperm test results. The doctor examined him and says everything looks normal and doesn't believe its genetic. He is on the smaller side for testy size but thats it. He is having my husband do another sperm sample test on Monday August 28th at 8:30am and the. Come back for 10am for results and go over options! We were so extremely happy to hear it could happen the natural way just may take longer! At this next appt we will decide if we want genetic blood tests to see if thats it!!! He is on side of results from the first one that genetic testing would be a waste cuz its not believed to be the problem! I guess it can be normal for guys tests to go up and down throughout a month! So please pray for us that we can get better results and options of getting our own biological child for my husband. At this point we at least want one child together even though i wanted two more but I would be happy with one more!!! Since I already have a child who is 11 yrs old I would like him to have a sibling! But this is more for my husband getting his dream! We are willing to do <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">iui</a> or <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> just want to make sure theres no other options thats less money! Thanks for the support and I will update after the next appt!!!