My SO and I have been together for 3 years, we always try to do something sweet for birthdays even if its something small, I appreciate anything he does for me and he's the same. My birthday was 2 days ago, he stayed the night the night before because he has work the next day, we woke up and he told me happy birthday, and that was the last I heard about it at all which was weird to me. It wouldn't have bothered me at all if he would have given me a reason why he didn't, I would have been happy with a card lol today he got off of work and went to look at guitars ecause he wants a new one, which is great for him but I am a little thrown off because he's been blowing money on a lot of other things so I know that wasn't it. I'm just confused and I'm not sure how to bring it up without sounding rude or like I'm overreacting😕 I'm not mad at all, just confused😬