I feel like wearing lingerie highlights that I don't have a perfect body... I've always struggled with body image. When I'm completely naked I can lose myself in the moment because I feel loved and beautiful and accepted.. or if I'm in something like cute pjs that boarder being sexy but are still not full out lingerie.. But when I try to wear lingerie, it messes with my head and I can't relax and it messes up the moment sometimes coming to a complete halt and even ending in tears occasionally. I don't want to feel this way.. I just feel cripplingly self conscious when I try to wear something like that for fear of not being good enough... in the world of flawless models I just feel like lingerie is a joke on me. How can I over come this?

My SO loves it when I wear something special but I hate it because all I can think about is that I look ridiculous and that I am accentuating all my flaws.

I love how beautiful lingerie is and own a good amount but I just don't feel good enough for it... it's almost as if it is a huge emotional trigger for me to feel like I don't measure up.

Any advice or anyone feel the same way?