How is everyone dealing with family members giving you ridiculous "advice" about your baby?

Such as you can't tickle cause it's torture, can't cuddle with it in bed cause you'll roll on it(not sleep, just cuddle), etc. (There's way more but don't care to think of them haha)

I'm 21 weeks and my mans mother thinks she's giving me such good advice but I'm going to lose my shit soon. It's our first kid, but I've been Around children/babies my entire life. I know what I'm doing and what is right and wrong. Tickling my baby is not wrong in my eyes, nor is cuddling with him.

She also thinks that we have to run the name by here & she needs to approve. And says she'll call him whatever she wants, not his name.

It may be my hormones but oh man, this mama is gonna snaaaaap.

I could really use some advice on how to deal with her without creating issues.