Oh my goddddd... I'm on the verge of a panic attack and crying until I can't stop..... ok first off, I trust my man and I might get hate for peaking on his phone but I DONT CARE and just want honest advice, not "you shouldn't be together if you don't trust him."

I've never looked at his phone, I trust him with my life, he's made so many sacrifices for me and our soon to be family and I know he would do just about anything for me and for us. I'm 20 weeks pregnant and we recently moved in together. It's the middle of the night and I couldn't sleep. Boyfriend is sound asleep. I got up and did some stretches because my back and hips hurt. Got hungry and decided to go have a snack in the living room. I sit down to eat, and notice his phone on the coffee table. I WAS CURIOUS OKAY damn let me live. We've been going through difficult transitions including him having to find a temporary home for his dog because his dog very viciously attached mine multiple times over food (thankfully she hasn't been hurt but not going to risk any more). We've tried putting baby gates up, talked about a muzzle but it's just stressful feeling like I have to watch the dogs' every move and worrying that my baby girl (dog)... NOT TO MENTION OUR FUTURE CHILD... is at risk. He has been SO understanding and I have felt terrible for having to temporarily regime him even though I'm upset that this happened in the first place. He's been very proactive in resolving this situation, saying he needs to provide for his family and loves his dog but his dog can't get in the way of the one thing he's wanted the most all of his life. He has been keeping his dog at his place of work which has dog boarding in the back for employees, for the last two weeks. I feel horrible that he is boarding, feel awkward that his co workers probably think I'm a huge bitch because his dog has to be boarded because of "me and my dog," and my heart also hurts for my boyfriend because that's his dog. He has reassured me that he will not resent me, and that his co workers don't think badly of me. However. I have been contemplating staying with my mom for a few weeks so that his dog can have a break and be home. ANYWAY that's the background.

So, I am curious and it's the middle of the night and whatever sue me, right? I look at his text messages. I just look at the last one he received, it's from a number that isn't saved. I looked at it. Let's call this girl ummm... Anna. So here's what the texts say VERBATIM MINUS HER ACTUAL NAME

"Hey it's Anna. I hope today wasn't horrible for you and you wish never to work with me again. I think I'm a pain in the ass because I do like you and working with you... sorry"

UMMM BITCH WHAT?? EXSQUEEZE ME?? My heart is pounding.. POUNDING, I TELL YOU.

His response:

"Lol. You are one of the few people I enjoy working with. You get shit done and I appreciate that because I'm under a lot of stress lately and my mind isn't focused at work."

Background... he's been sleeping terribly and only a few hours per night, stressed about money bc of coming baby, etc. he's been struggling.

I didn't take pics of all the texts, it wasn't a lot and only wanted to document the important ones. He told her that he has a pregnant girlfriend, she asked something along the lines of if we are together and if he loves me or something, basically asking if I'm just baby momma. He says no, I love her I loved her before the baby. He tells her I moved in (he has a two bedroom and a co worker lives in other room) she says oh that's not a lot of room blah blah random bull shit. THEN SHE SAYS THIS:

"I'm sorry and you can hate me for this but come to find out, your dog is boarding because of "her and her dog". That's horrible."

He defends me and tells her that his dog attacked mine multiple times and that it's temporary. that he is trying to provide a safe home for his family and he can't do that if it is unsafe.

She continues to ask if he would mind if she finds a new home for him (AREN'T YOU SO NICE), that she's sorry for making him feel worse, and that "it's just that we all love your dog and I was so sad I started crying then got mad and cried again. etc. He says something like I don't want to lose him and give him away I just need a temporary home for him. She doesn't respond. There are no more texts.

I'm so pissed I could cry.... How do I bring this up... I feel sad because I'm going to start working there in a couple months and now I feel like all his co workers are talking shit about me... I used to work there in the past and am friends with some of his coworkers and I feel like talking to them and asking for advice and I want to know who this bitch is. I know he would be honest if I asked but I want to know more, like if they like her or idk I just want to know more... I'm just sad and feel that everyone there hates me and is talking shit about me and thinks poorly of me. I'm happy that he defended me, but also kind of annoyed that he entertained her and said he likes working with her. ALSO not sure how she meant "I LIKE YOU" .... what kind of "like"????? I don't even know who this is or if she is our age or if she is old and doesn't think about how she is saying "like..." Ugh... now I REALLY can't sleep... any advice after this long a$$ post would be appreciated...