I need genuine advice from people that struggle with opiate addiction. I met my husband 4 years ago and he was heavily addicted to Vicodin and cocaine as the kicker. I found this out 3 months into dating him. I stayed with him through rehab and the following year of struggle to stay sober. We've been married for about 2&1/2 years now. He's not a small talker so it's sometimes hard to get to his core of what he's dealing with. Recently he had (another) falling out with his shitty father and I discovered that he took ONE of my Vicodin that I had left over from a root canal to "deal". We share a bank account and money isn't mysteriously missing or anything like that and he swears it was just that one. The thing is it seems like every 6 months or so it's always something that pushes him back into the arms of Vicodin. Even if it is just one. I flipped out on him. It was my initial reaction. I guess my question is how do I deal with this? I love him so much and I've asked him to talk to me when he's feeling "the urge" and most of the time he does....but sometimes I guess it's too much? Idk. How do I handle this and potential future relapses. Granted the time between relapses is getting longer and longer....I just don't know how to make him or help him stop for good....if that's even possible.....