Need advice on relationship

Lucy

I have been dating this man for several months we broke up once because he was dating someone else and he thought I was not serious about him. At that time I was not sure I wanted a commitment I had just gotten out of a marriage of almost 9yrs. We decided to get back together but in the last few months his exs keep showing up!! Text from them or claiming to be friends with his mother and I feel disrespected, he would be upset if any of my exs would text or call me?? We are now on a break and part of me wants him back because I do love him and want a life with him but I also feel like he is just playing with me? I don't know what to do?