UPDATE. married but enjoys father in law company

Im 25 my husband is 28. i have always been into older guys. his dad is 56 but looks really young and him and my husband look alike. they both weirdly treats my the same very special and make me feel very good. me and my husband has been together for 9 years married one year with a son thats 8. i dont know if my father in law took advantage due to my age ,love and respect i have for him. i dont know if i like the feeling or i actually like him. i just really need to get this out but no way i can talk to any friends or family UPDATE:::: MY SON IS MY HUSBANDS THANKS FOR THE CONCERNS AND ADVICE. I NEVER PUT ANYTHING ABOUT THE PATERNITY OF MY SON SO THANKS FOR PULLING THAT OUT YOUR ASS. BUT THANKS EVRYONE FOR THE ADVICE