Okay guys, I know this 15 year old girl who likes to party, do drugs and try to fit in with the "popular" crowd. She recently got drunk and accidentally told me while crying that she was raped TWICE, while out at a drinking party and her "friends" were no where to be found.

I told her to get new friends and stop partying etc because she's only 15 and will regret everything later in life. Especially because she's so young and has been raped TWICE she should of learned her lesson not to hangout with friends who leaves her like that.

What are your opinions after reading??!

EDIT: as stated above, she was raped twice at a party and her friends were no where to help her. And no she's not pregnant but is still going out partying like nothing's happened. Seems like she still hasn't learned her lesson yet.

EDITPT2: I know there isn't any lesson that needs to be learned and that we all cope with it in our own ways and that no one should ever be raped, but try understanding from my point of view. She hangs with the wrong crowd, always try's to fit in, doing drugs and going out to drinking party's at such a young age and doesn't have the care in this world for her own safety. After being raped once and none of her friends were even there for her, she should have came to her senses that those friends are not her true friends who'll look after her. I've told her multiple times not to hang out with those people because some people aren't who they really are and that you can't just befriend a stranger and trust them right away but she never listens.

EDITPT3: Regina Phalange, yes I did say that she needs to learn her lesson and that there is no lesson that needs to be learned and I do mean both. Obviously, what I'm trying to say here is that she DOES need to learn her lesson and stop being with people who doesn't care for her safety and that to those who were raped before shouldn't need to be taught a lesson because being hurt once was enough and no one would want it to happen again. Obviously if they were to keep doing the same thing to make themselves vulnerable, then yes I would say they need to be taught a lesson. If you don't like what I'm posing- feel free to leave and stop commenting. I came here to look for support and answers not negativity and criticism so you get out with your nonsense.