orgasms?!

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I feel like orgasms are a myth because I haven't been able to get them at all I just recently got married (we've been together a total of 4 months before we got married). I love him completely to the point where I can compromise with not orgasming but I've tried to talk to him and whenever I do he feels like it's his fault. Are there any tips that I can use without talking to him to help myself orgasm?

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Try getting a little vibrator to use for external stimulation while he's inside you.

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Being on top helps me each and every time.

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Most women I think like 79-80% of women can't orgasm on penetration alone. Clit stimulation is what works. Either oral sex or you on top. Well usually what works for me.

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no, it's not time to start watching porn, it's also not time to start masturbating in case anyone mentions that too. Many women need clitoral stimulation in addition to penetration. Communicate with your husband on your needs.

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It takes time to learn what works for you. I have been married for over 4 years and I rarely orgasm with penetration alone. I usually need clitoral stimulation to get anywhere. My favorite is when my husband stimulates my clitoris while also penetrating me. Don’t be afraid to adjust his hand or show him how to do it in a way that actually feels good to you. It might take time to get the hang of it and you might have to have multiple conversations about it. Just be patient and keep working on it.

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it took me 29 years to reach an orgasm via sex with a man...... and now that I've found that magic ill NEVER let it go.

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You should be able to orgasm by yourself first. Ie. masturbate  
Most women can’t orgasm from penetration alone. When I orgasm during sex it’s from my clit and penetration.
You can’t expect your husband to get you there or if you can’t get yourself there (usually a mental thing, more comfortable with yourself, you get used to the feeling and what to expect, etc)
Best of luck on getting ur ‘O’on!

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the thing is he doesn't really know how to do anything else like he doesn't understand that I need more than just penetration

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