Pregnancy weight gain

I just left my doctors office and he made me feel so bad about myself! I am 27 weeks and haven't been able to work out at all due to bleeding. I've gained right at 30 lbs. My doctor told me I should be worried about my weight and that I would most likely never lose it. 😢 Then he brought up Gestational Diabetes (I have my one hour next week). I'm absolutely terrified now and cried the entire way home. Any other moms out there have a similar experience or can offer any words of encouragement?

** I just want to thank ALL of you wonderful ladies on here that shared their stories with me! You all made me feel so much better. Earlier this week I was feeling LOW I mean dangerously low. But your kind words and stories have really put things into perspective for me and I don't feel so "shamed" after all. It is so wonderful to have an outlet with unbiased/encouraging women that I can share stories like this on. You ladies have uplifted and encouraged me. You all rock, keep it up mamas! We've gotta have each other's backs! 💙👶🏻💙**