Am I enough

So my man wants to have sex with me and can please me however he can't always climax with me and must use porn when I can't help him get to climax. I think of porn as cheating because my faith and insecurities I have. He has the same faith so I am boggled. So we talked and he said porn was just a tool. So I responded with okay... If it is just a tool we should go video tape me and find a guy who just needs the tool so we can help him. He said I was out of my ever loving mind. I would apreciate any and all comments and even ask your men and get their response!