When your friend suffers with infertility...

Ladies, I need some advice. I had my first baby app today and have confirmed that I am 8weeks pregnant! I planned on announcing this weekend, now that our close friends and family know. I have one friend though who I have not yet told and everytime I go to, I just don't feel right. I don't want to hurt her feelings and I feel just awful when ever I try to bring myself to tell her. I was getting ready to tell her earlier, had it all written out, and before I had the chance to hit send, she tells me her husband lost his job. Now how am I supposed to go about this. I can't tell her in person as she is in a completely different state than I am, and I feel doing it over the phone would put her on the spot and her feel forced to say something if she's not ready. This is what I was going to say "So, I haven't said anything because I honestly wasn't sure how too as I know you've been struggling for a while and I feel bad and I haven't had an app until today to confirm. But I wanted to tell you before saying anything publicly. Today I had a drs app to confirm that I am 8weeks. I understand if you need time to think before saying anything. I don't fully understand what you are going through, but I want you to know that I will always be there for you".