My boyfriend and I were laying in bed the other day and he turns to me and says before I get yelled just think about it. Clearly I was very curious as to what was about to come out of his mouth. I can't remember exactly how he said it but point is that he would like it if I could consider getting fucked by another man. Me being my Latin self asked him immediately if he was saying this because he wanted to fuck another girl, he said absolutely not. I had many questions, who? Where? Does he know him? Why? When? His response was, well I guess that's not a no, to which I said well not really, I need to know these things before I can decide. He said it wouldn't happen until later in our relationship (then joked about it and said "you know babe, like next week") and obviously I'd have to agree to it and he would be there. Have any of you done this? I've never cheated on anyone and I can't help but think I'd feel guilty.

Update:

This isn't something that we just talked about once and then the next day we're doing it.

Many of you have said you couldn't even think of your man being with someone else and like I said in the original text that was one of the first questions I asked him and he said in no way was he interested in being with another woman. That is completely out of the question.

I don't know how it works, I've never done it before. I'm as loyal as it gets and never cheated on anyone. So as you can imagine this is all very new to me.

I'd never considered the idea of my man "pimping" me. I've known him for a while and we have a very adventurous sex life with plenty of kinks so it wouldn't surprise me at all if it's just something he's been wanting to try.

As far as the std and pregnancy thing, come on guys. It's not like I'm a virgin and if so far I've taken care of myself why would this be any different.

His parents were swingers and he's always said that his parents have an amazing relationship so I can understand how it's "normal" for him.

I understand everyone is different and everyone is entitled to their own opinions just keep that in mind.