purees and baby led weaning

ive seen posts on here before about people not respecting doing baby led weaning for your baby, so its good to know im not alone. ive been doing it for over 2 months for my daughter and she has almost 6 teeth and has had no issues with it. i keep leaving fruit or veggies for the baby sitter to feed her when i work part time and she has been sneaking purees into my house and feeding her those! i think shes old school and is afraid she will choke or something, but i find it very disrespectful and it also worries me that she is feeding her other stuff, especially because i am vegan and my family mainly eats plant based as well. she told my older son that she wants to feed her ice cream and pickles! ive tried addressing the issue with her without sounding like a tyrant, but she does whatever anyway. im about to just strictly leave breast milk for the couple hours i am gone!