New here. Cycle day 42. Normally 32 day cycle. 9 days late. BFN

Heather

Hey all. I am 30 soon to be 31 this winter. This is my 2nd month TTC. My cycles have a slight irregularity with a 5 day standard deviation though I average 32 days. This cycle I am CD 42 and currently 9 days late and no sign of AF. I have taken 7 tests so far with the last one taken yesterday morning. All BFN.

I got a positive OPK on CD 16. We BD'd on CD 13, 14, 15, and 17. My Kindara app had my fertile window as those days but now it has readjusted it to CD 18-22. We didn't BD anymore after CD 17 because DH got sick.

My Kindara app also readjusted my cycle to have started at CD 40 and still nothing.

I checked my cervix today (a challenge since it is tilted) and it was high and soft. I also had a lot of creamy lotion like CM.

I really have no idea what is going on.

Has anyone else experienced this and been pregnant?