More than one baby before the age of 21/22?
Who all here has had more than 1 baby before they turned 21/22? I have a 17 month old son that I got pregnant with at 18 and I'm now currently 20 pregnant with number 2... Yes I was on BC but an antibiotic I believe intervened with that. I'm just wondering what your experience was with it? And if you had second thoughts or how you dealt with it?? If it gets better... I like being a mom, but I only like being a mom right now to 1 child... I didn't really want more then 1 kid and if I did want another it would've been a little ways down the road like late 20s. I'm stressing and I'm not even gonna lie, I've considered abortion but my SO really wants to keep it. We are already struggling hard financially but making it, have a house and car and he has a decent job but I just don't know. I'm scared of what my family will think.
UPDATE: In all honestly I'd have an abortion but my SO wants to keep it... The reason I don't want to have another child with him yet is because we have had a lot of problems in our relationship and we got back together a few months ago and we have been going good, so far. But I just ask myself if I really want to have another child with this man again right now? I'd feel incredibly guilty of I did abort because he wanted me to keep it.. So I feel like that choice is already taken from me. I do love him but we JUST started doing good in our relationship for the first time in a long time. And I just don't know if I'm ready for another child mentally... Adoption isn't an option because I wouldn't go through the whole process of pregnancy just to give my child to a stranger and my son having a little brother/sister out there he's never met, yeah hell no.
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