So, I can't have sex due to a short cervix. Since I have a short cervix I now have a cerclage (I have a stitch in my cervix). Let me be clear that means no penetration of any kind, no oral sex, basically nothing that can cause me to have an orgasm. This is going to suck but if it means me having a healthy pregnancy so that I can have a healthy baby! I'm gonna do it. My question is since I can't have sex or have an orgasm is it ok for me to ask my husband to basically be celibate with me until baby is due? Like no jerking off, no oral just cold turkey?!