Sensitive subject for some people

Completely normal for others

Stop ✋ knocking each other for their beliefs and choices.

Stop being so bitchy and jumping peoples shit because they used the words, "I don't allow porn in our household" or "I don't let him/her watch porn.

Completely understandable when your dating someone for a short time you don't have a right to tell someone they CANT do something. HOWEVER if your married and you don't like it and it makes you uncomfortable/insecure religious or otherwise then you have every damn right! Your no longer Two different people your ONE and that means you respect each other.

My own personal example:

I don't allow or like porn. I'm not insecure or controlling. I feel like it is degrading to me as a wife to have my husband jerking off to a couple fucking. Plain and simple. I don't like it therefor he doesn't watch it. Jerk off all you want just not to other women.

Same goes for men.

I was going to get a job at tilted kilt. If you know what that restaurant is, they are dressed really provocative. My husband was completely against it because of the clothing and men drinking there. So I didn't take the job. Its called respect. He told me I wasn't working there because of that stuff. And I am okay with that because I understand why he felt that way. Our marriage isn't controlling or abusive. So stop being so damn petty about someone using the damn term "allow"

RANT OVER