Advice Please! On emotions and Husband being weighed down.

My husband and I have not been doing to well as we have been fighting. I am struggling emotionally and finding it hard to be happy. The fights are getting to me and I feel that they are leaving a lot of emotional damage on my end and leaving my husband with a grudge on his end. I've been very emotional lately and my husband is taking it personal (knowing my emotions are cuz of him and the relationship) he calls me pathetic if I break down or have an anxiety attack lately. He said I can't go to himm with every emotional thing cuz it's too much on him and for him to deal with. Am i weighing him down? How can I deal with my sadness lately but also not feel like I'm being emotionally neglected? Please help.