What could it be?

Ashley

Currently 3 weeks late. My flows are irregular but i usually get them once a month being one week at the latest or earliest. I was late two months ago by a couple of days and the month after was a week early.

My last af was July 9-15 with a regular flow only from the 10-13. During my fertile days we did bd especial when i got positive opk. One week after possible o, I spotted very lightly ( brown/ pinkish spots) only wearing a liner for 7 days it stopped for a day and then continued for 2 more. After the spotting stopped i started testing got what looked like vvvfl in the beginning (blue dye test) but all the pink dye have been bfn.

Im currently on cd53 my next af is suppose to be due Sep 8 (friday) theres no sign of af coming and I am not really having any noticeable symptoms. We've been trying for 7 months now going on 8. I can recall any time where I have missed af for two months. I havent had any stress or mishaps out of the ordinary and even in my most stressful times af has shown up if not early or on time then late. I was tempting until cd 50. My temps were staying up (97s) but then started to drop high (96.6-97) and stayed so I thought af was coming but she never showed.

Symptoms I have been having is waking up early very hungry but after a few hours of activity or moving around I need a nap, also was sitting for a longer period of time like driving i get short of breath, my boobs havent been to sore but I did notice them seeming a little fuller, i have tinges here and there in my abdomen, belly button, and my legs (thighs). At night or late afternoon I tend to get a light/dull headache and slightly nauseous. After eating I get super bloated to where I look pregnant. I pee maybe three to four times more than usual. Cms been white and watery on underwear. When wiping clear slippery cm but very light. Cm never dried up at all and been slightly damp down there . I have sharp tinges or light/dull cramping once in a while. I cant really think of anything else thats very out of the ordinary.

During the first two days of spotting I was sleeping all day not exaggerating. It felt like I havent slept for weeks and then I started having to take a nap at least once a day even if I didnt so anything or else by 8-9 I was exhausted and Im normally a late sleeper. Had cramping here and there but af never showed.

Now I am to the point of confusion because all hpt are bfn. If I counted correctly I should be measuring 7 almost 8 weeks. I am nervous to fake a blood teat and get a negative so I have been pushing back the days and told myself O will take the test if I miss a second af (next friday). Last week I talked to my gm and she doesnt seem to worried all she said was to come in and take a blood test and ahe would call me with the results. I just dont know what to do or think. We really want this and always get our hopes up and every time af eventually shows and we get bfns. Just needed to get this off my chest and looking for any encouragement. Well thanks for reading my story and I'll keep you updated!