Dodged the Dirtbag Bullet!

I just needed to tell this story to SOMEONE and my husband is out of town and it's 1 AM so HERE IT GOES!

Almost 3 years ago I ended my only other serious relationship. He wanted to get married but I didn't see it and I never felt like he really supported me. On my birthday this year, I got a text from him asking me what he had done to mess up our relationship, that he was trying to be a better person, and asked if I ever missed "us." He told me he missed us all the time and wished we could hang out "like old times." I kind of explained how I'd felt at that time and reminded him that I was married now and I loved my husband and so really never missed being with him. (I left out that I NEVER missed being with him because I never felt like I was enough when we were together because I figured it was unnecessary and I was happy for him that he was trying to be better and so didn't want to hurt him unnecessarily. After all, I'm so happy now and had so long before that stopped thinking about him.) Well, tonight he accepted a friend request on Facebook that I had sent him a few months after we'd broken up (Half cause I'd wanted to creep and half cause he'd been a good friend before the relationship) and forgotten I'd sent him. So I was really confused when I got THAT notification. So I kind of scroll down his page and see that not only does he have a wife now, but that he HAD a wife when he sent me that text AND he got married ON MY BIRTHDAY the year before that text.

It's all so weird and all I can think is, "Man, I REALLY dodged a bullet with that one!"