I want more sex. However, it's really hard because I work at 3:00am-8:00am and then I have full time school and real estate courses. I manage my time wisely so I am usually done with everything by 6pm. However, at that point, I am so exhausted I end up falling asleep on the couch around 8pm-9pm. Sometimes I'll stay awake till 11pm. But by the time my boyfriend is done playing video games I am too tired to even try to have sex. But I want more of it. Before I mentioned to him that going three days without sex is hard for me and he said "if that's a problem we are going to have a problem". Which, slightly makes me feel better because he is ok with not getting Everday but it also makes me feel bad like he isn't as attracted to me. In the beginning we were having sex all the time and now it's barely 2-3 times a week.

The worst part is that his roommate is leaving for a few days and that would usually mean we do it a lot but I'm about to start my period (either Saturday or Sunday). It only lasts till Wednesday but still. Would it be weird to ask him why he's ok with having less sex? I don't want it to be a chore. Does every relationship go through these "lulls"? Or is he possibly not attracted to me anymore?

I'm not bragging because I don't have the best body but I do get hit on a lot and I'm really sweet so I don't see why he wouldn't be into me? (Really not trying to sound vain, I just know what level girlfriend I am, and I do a lot for him) How is a good way to approach this issue? Like, how should I phrase it without just saying "yo, why don't you want to fuck me a lot"?