My bonus daughters mom is in jail. She called us yesterday, and told us that she heard we were TTC baby #2 (#3 for him). She said that if we did conceive, she didn't want our bonus daughter to be included into the announcement. I've been taking care of her since she was 3 months old, she's now 2 y/o. Her mom has been in and out of jail since she was born. I love her as if she were my own. 😞 should I respect her moms wishes, or just say fuck her?