Was sex always this painful?

i'm 38+4 and I had sex last night.. omg.. the freaking painnnn. Afterwards my lower back was in pain ALL night, and the pressure was so real that I coukdn't sleep last night. The amount of pressure made me have more trips to the bathroom 😣😣😣 I am so sleepy. My back doesn't hurt anymore, but my cervix area is very sore! Even hurts to try and pee a little 🙃 Not to mention the amount of mucousy discharge I had to take my time to clean. Is sex painful for you ladies??