My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now and when we met he was a little over weight as was I . Clearly this wasn't an issue for either of us I was super attracted to him and we were absolutely smitten with each other ! Over time he has began to gain more and more weight and it's beginning to take a toll on our sex life. I know it sounds terrible but I can't help the fact that I just feel less attracted and I never feel the urge to have sex with him anymore. He's starting to notice we don't have sex and is constantly asking for it but when I try to I just feel so disconnected. How do I talk to him about it with out hurting is feelings ?