Does this make me an idiot

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Im 15, Ive been chatting to this boy and I've known him for 4 years but the last 3 years the kids been bullying me, and I was chatting to him and he asked me if I wanted to spoon then fork and I like said yeah but I'm still a virgin and I don't really wanna loose it to a kid who bullies me. Any advise on what to do

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Say no to him, avoid him and don't do what you don't want to do

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I've checked out some of your other posts on smoking, losing virginity, etc. and I'm sorry to say but you seem to be focusing on the wrong things, which I actually completely understand because I've been there myself at your age. You need to know that your best age is yet to come and the most important thing you should be focusing on right now is studying and making it in life, not having sex with idiots who bully others or fucking up your health and body by smoking and possibly getting cancer. I know right now you feel that you need to appear older and hotter and etc, but girls your age fail to realize that you are still kids and think the wrong things are cool (like smoking and losing your virginity)
and those that bully you right now and make you feel small will be nothing once you graduate and have your job and have a real boyfriend who treats you like a queen. So you WILL regret having
sex with this boy and you WILL regret wasting your health. Stop trying to grow up too fast.

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Why would you even say yes in the first place if he has bullied you for most if the time you have known him?

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Don't have sex until you're at least 18. Period. The fact that you'd consider doing anything with some one who is bullying you, shows a lack of self confidence and maturity.

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Please understand you are worth more and deserve to be treated like a lady. You do not want to start a cycle of abusive relationships at such a young age. This seems like the start if you were to follow through. Do not let a man or boy in his case treat you like you're nothing and then something the next minute to fit his agenda. He's going to be mean he's going to spread rumors but you know yourself and know those things aren't true. The people that believe any of that won't and shouldn't matter now or down the road. Stand your ground say no and avoid him if possible. Talk to a school counselor about switching schedule and maybe the situation with the bullying. Good luck!

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