If you uncle molested you when you were little


so recently my grandma passed away and I was a beneficiary of her life insurance her daughter is in a financial struggle since her passing mom would like me to send her money and everyone of our family members some of them money including her little brother. when i was you get about 8 or 7 he used to live with my family and he started to molest me when my parents weren't looking or they where out I haven't told anyone except my older sister and my best friend recently I feel like I've moved on but I think I just pushed it to the back of my head. and through out the years this man has always had an unstable life and has always reached out to my mom and other uncle or grandma's for money and I tell my mom not to help him out cause she works hard and it's taking away from her children but she doesn't understand why what do I do.