I'm 26 weeks and trying to get a list together for my baby's father. He's been super weird about my pregnancy and we honestly haven't even talked much about it. But we're starting to run out of time and I need him to get serious.. he has a 3 year old so he already has some baby stuff. But I'll be staying at my grandmothers who lives 2 hours away from him as opposed to the 15 minutes apart we lived before. My baby is due in December and I'm not comfortable having the baby travel back and forth as a newborn in the cold weather, especially if it's snowing. So for the first few months he's going to need to travel to me which is going to be a lot of work and a lot of time. I don't think him having another baby will be real to him or really hit him until the baby is here, then he'll go into panic mode. So I'm just trying to prepare and make a list of things he's going to need, things we need to work out. Just to make him realize this isn't a joke and it's time to seriously get with it! Does anybody have any suggestions?