When saying no...

Question

What do you do if you tell your husband/boyfriend that you don't want to do anal or oral but he keeps asking even though you've told him you don't like doing it and you don't feel comfortable.

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he doesn't ask again if I say no the first time. he doesn't pressure me to do anything I don't want to

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If he can't take no for no, he isn't respecting and there's a bigger problem there.. Be straight up and tell him he needs to respect your boundaries.

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I never do anal and if I don't want to do oral I say not tonight he has to respect it no means no

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If you're not up for it at all, just tell him like it is. He's probably hoping you'll eventually change your mind if he keeps asking. Either give it a shot to get it out of the way, (use a lot of lube) or let him know you're unwavering on the matter.

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I just simply say no, my boyfriend gets butthurt sometimes but oh well. He gets over it and never makes me feel bad. If he is doing that to you that isn't okay.

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Keep telling him no

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