SO... I need some help ladies. I think I'm in love with two guys. I met them both around the same time and have been seeing them consistently for a few months. They don't know about that though. Also: they both go to the same university and both participate in Greek life, often doing events with each other's fraternities...

..Each one thinks that the other one is just a friend. One is ready to date me and the other one is just about there but he's still hurting from a serious break up (his ex cheated on him a bunch of times)... but I feel strongly about both of them... like something that one does that doesn't make me happy is canceled out bc the other guy does the opposite. Like they both have qualities that are desirable... so in a nutshell, what do I do ?!