I'm 38, and my husband is 50. We just got married at the end of June, which is great. I've been aware for quite a while that he's had a high-stress situation at work, and I tend to be anxious about work myself. I noticed that we've been averaging one bedroom romp per month... when I convince him it's the thing we could best spend our time doing (he's a DIY wizard and always has amazing projects on the go - and many of them). Lately, I've been trying my best to be more aware of the good things in our lives and to try to stress less so that I can be better company for my over-extended partner... hoping that might lead to a bit more intimate time. Has anyone else gone through something like this?