Hey ladies.. I need help, I'm a 23 y/o virgin, my fiance and I were talking the other night about our turn on and offs on sex haha.. He mentioned he doesnt like full grown hair down there at the same tine he doesnt like it very bare.. So...

I was thinking of cutting or trimming my hair down there as I am afraid to shave it or wax it.. Trying to get used to the feeling, do you know ways to best trim it? Any advice or suggestions on how I can do it? What do i apply after? Will it become itchy as it grows? It feels very awkward to ask someone in person haha.. Help pleassee 😅😅😅